Currently living in a waaay nicer apartment in a waaay nicer area with just me and my wife than my shitty ex roommate/abuser who once told my wife we would never be able to afford a place more than $500/month so I hope they choke to death on their own words <333
I literally only got on to post this lmfaaaao eat shit & die
AND I GOT A CALL FOR AN INTERVIEW FOR ONE OF MY DREAM JOBS LESS THAN 30 MINUTES AFTER APPLYING SUCK MY WHOLE COCK AND ALL MY BALLS
Currently living in a waaay nicer apartment in a waaay nicer area with just me and my wife than my shitty ex roommate/abuser who once told my wife we would never be able to afford a place more than $500/month so I hope they choke to death on their own words <333
I literally only got on to post this lmfaaaao eat shit & die
Literally only here to post this as vindication for myself, I don’t really use tumblr anymore ever since that Very Well Known User sent their follower base to send me death and rape threats (still get those when I get on to post to my art blog btw, thanks!), but I’m reading a professional paper about certain behaviors in online spaces and;
“Behaviours that would normally be seen as bigoted and inappropriate by marginalized fans become deserved when the targets in question embody [certain] traits, […] [fandom centering] Asian media often criticize Asian content that they feel embodies such traits painting Asian fans and creators as being morally deficient and ‘much worse’ compared to ‘western’ audiences, with claims that Asians ‘love incest’ and made paedophilic art ”
wow, it’s almost like that thing I pointed out they were doing that was racist is a well known thing that people like them do! and it’s racist!
Hi! My name is Dito, and me and my wife need help!
On March 31st our landlord informed the house that a family member of his would be moving into town and that he planned to give the house to them, as such weβve been given thirty (30) days to move.
This eviction is in no way, shape, or form a result of our actions but strictly those of our landlord deciding that we didnβt need any real advanced notice. On the plus side, I have been saving to move my wife and I out either late summer or early fall. Meaning that I do have some funds put aside.
Due to the timing, however, I did not get the full summer to make the funds needed, and we need to move now. My current funds amount strictly to the first and last monthβs rent on an apartment in the city we plan to move to, for that reason Iβm crowdfunding both for extra rent padding, moving costs such as renting a moving truck, the pet deposit for our lovely little void of a cat Zuzu, and any necessities we may need to replace seeing as we have decided to move out on our own rather than continuing to live with those we had previously been living with, this means potentially replacing furniture, cookware, and getting groceries once the move is complete.
Iβll be working hard to make sure our goals are met and that we arrive safely at our destination. Iβm choosing to see this sudden event not as a tragedy, but as a sign that itβs time for a new start as I and my wife continue into the future together.
The funding goal is high not because we are demanding you give us that much for the initial move per-se, but because any excess funds we can get will be put directly back into making sure we have a little leeway with rent funds as my wife looks for a new job in our new location.
Thank you for taking the time to read and to consider helping us at this time. Even the smallest amount is both gracious, and deeply appreciated.
You can donate to us above. Every tiny bit helps, I understand that things are tight for everyone right now, so there is absolutely no pressure to do so, please take care of yourselves first.
you are also free and encouraged to spread this link anywhere you can/feel comfortable
i am once again asking people i know to do actual research on OCD and what it is b/c i saw someone equating POCD to actual predatory shit recently and i think im going to break out of my enclosure . OCD is not about “subconscious desires” it’s about fear. fears, aversions and repulsions, both subconscious and conscious.
OCD forces you to obsess over things that make you anxious, scared, uncomfortable, or disgusted. possibilities (about yourself, your future, your loved ones and their futures, etc) that would give you nightmares if you considered them for too long.
literally the second you start thinking OCD may be about “subconscious desires” you have lost. you made an immediate left turn when you were supposed to make a right and now you’re on a completely different road.
this applies to all forms of OCD by the way, even the most “disgusting”, taboo or “disturbing”. whichever form of OCD you’re thinking may be an exception to this rule, is not an exception. b/c there is none
if you want young queers to want to associate with elder queers then maybe the culture shouldn't be so ridiculous and over the top. I get second hand embarrassment from drag queens and leather daddies and kinksters in puphoods acting like they represent all gays
I would much rather be represented by drag queens, leather daddies and pups than by petulant cowards afraid of their own reflection. You are talking about people who never had the option of being seen as “normal people who just happen to be gay” and channeled their pain into self expression, community and art. And who are you? You define yourself not in terms of who you are and what you create but in terms of who you are not and what you lack. These people you hate only seem larger than life because your life is too small and insignificant to fit them.
this anon is the biggest fucking dipshit loser in the world. i cannot imagine seeing people who are rebelling against sex and gender openly and with great risk to their life and think “umm freak much? ew” instead of thinking they’re insanely badass lol